If you asked me for one of the biggest lessons I've learned, I'll tell you that its all about my relationships and the people I know. I have learned so much about people over the last ten years. It's been a rough learning experience but now, I can honestly say that the relationships I have personally and professionally are the right ones. I feel strongly that anyone that is close to me needs to be upfront, unassuming and honest, and when I say honest - I mean it. While I know its not easy, I am one that appreciates people calling it like it is...for me, its just the way it needs to be.
I would seriously take a look at your cache of friends and make a decision who your close friends (personal and professional) are and ensure you have a 100% open and honest relationship them. It's ok to have acquaintances but its not ok to confide and expect to have tight relationships with everyone. It's those expectations that will get you in trouble.
It's really that simple.
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